Apparently, you CAN do too well.
The hospice in the hospital is kicking us out!  Mom is doing really well right now.  They basically told her that since she is not critical, she has to go home.
We have set up all the hospice stuff for the house.  Well, we didn't, VITAS did.  Dad moved a loveseat out of the living room so we can put the hospital bed in its place.  We have an IV pole, a wheelchair, a hospital bed with air mattress, oxygen tanks, all the stuff you normally find in a hospital...in the house...which is odd.
The doctor did end up putting Mom on an antibiotic for the infection.  I spoke with him on Sunday and was pretty insistent on it.  He didn't seem to have an issue with it, other than the fact that she had already been on one for several days.  My basic response was, "well, that one obviously wasn't working, so lets try one that will work."  The nurse today said the culture came back saying it was yeast, not bacteria.  I've never seen a yeast infection act like that, but I've also never seen one anywhere other than the usual places, and this is most definitely an UNusual place for one!  She was going to double-check that though.
Mom is actually pretty happy to be moving home.  She can still have visitors (though we are discouraging them for moving day) without disturbing the rest of the floor.  Let me tell you, our bunch can get pretty noisy!  She also gets her puppy back!  Zoe will be SOOOO happy to have Mom home.  We are a little concerned about how she will be since she basically has only seen Mom for about 2 hours in the past 2 weeks.  But Dad seems to think that she will be hyper for a few minutes, then just curl up with her mommy.
They did increase Mom's dosage of pain meds.  She was pushing the button a little more frequently than they necessarily would have liked, but no where NEAR the max she is allowed to.  So we will be monitoring that closely.
We can move back to the hospice unit once she begins to get critical.  When we can no longer manage her at home, we will just call VITAS and they will transport her back.
We know that this is a temporary thing.  We are well aware that, without a major miracle, this is going to end with Mom dying.  However, I believe in a God who works MAJOR MIRACLES.  I believe that, if He chooses, Mom will get better or be healed.  I also believe that sometimes the best healing is to be removed from this earth, and be reunited later.  God knows best.  I might not always agree with His methods, but I can't argue with the end result.
Continue to pray for us.  I am seeing a change in my brother that I never thought I would see.  He is becoming more interested in the things of God, something he hasn't been terribly interested in for nearly 10 years.  He is a Christian, but has made a few slip ups.  As have all of us.  Pray that he continues to journey more along the road God has chosen for him, rather than his own road.  Pray that we will continue to be able to enjoy this time with Mom, and that she will be able to have her pain adequately controlled.  Pray that, if it be His will, she will be healed, and if that is not His will, that she will be comfortable.  Pray for healing for us, because there is not much of a faster way to a broken heart than by watching your mom slowly die.
As always, we appreciate your prayers.
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thank you for keeping us informed! I always appreciate hearing how your mom is, I am thrilled she gets to go home, and oh yes, we have a God who is in MAJOR MIRACLES! He can do anything, since he made us, he can surley heal us! so I pray for a healing! I am also happy about your brother...gosh, I think I have slipped maybe....hummmm like a zillion times! But I always come home...because I was brought up in the way...thank God we all had Christian parents and grandparents...God bless you and the family!
ReplyDeleteI wish I could see Zoe when she sees her mommie!!!
I think your Mom will be MUCH happier and more comfortable in her own home. It does seem rather ironically amusing to be doing too well, doesn't it?
ReplyDeleteI am so happy that God has gifted us all with more time!
ReplyDeleteI'm like Nora. I want to see Zoe when she sees her mom. I hope you are there because we want to hear of her antics and excitement when she realizes who is in that strange bed in her house!
Maybe your mom,and the rest of us, just THOUGHT that she had completed her last mission. Sounds to me like she's working on one with her own child. I know she would like nothing better than to see him come full circle, and knowing her, she would probably say that all shes been through has been worth it to see him get back on the path.
I will continue to pray for God's will and thank Him for the extra time!
I'm glad to hear your mom gets to come home for now. I'm praying for your family. Nicole, I just have to tell you how amazing you are, letting God shine through you and carry you through this time. I know your faith in Him will be rewarded. We miss you guys!
ReplyDeleteI'm so happy that Donna is able to go home and be with her family and Zoe in her own house and thank-you Nicole for keeping us all so well-informed on her care and health. You are such a wonderful family and I appreciated every minute that I was able to spend with Donna and all of you last week.
ReplyDeleteHave ya'll completed the move yet? We're waiting for happy puppy updates. :-)
ReplyDeleteNicole,
ReplyDeleteThank you for keeping us informed so well. I enjoyed visiting with your mom last Thursday.
I am glad she was so calm. I pray for peace and comfort for her and you. I love you all,
Viesha Kaminska